boddah

there's this guy who i hung out with twice and we chat often. at the beginning i found out that he tried getting these other girls too and i thought oh he's only just playing. but then a few weeks ago he told me that he likes me and i think i like him too? the problem is two of my friends used to like him and i dont know what to do. how do i know if he's being sincere? hope this doesnt sound confusing or stupid. thanks xx

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Anonymous

You can never know if a guy is being sincere or not, because you can’t know for sure what someone else is thinking, boy or girl. So I think you should just sit back, be responsible, and if he does really like you, go for it. You’re friends will understand, and if they don’t, buy a shotgun.

all the guys in my year try and touch my tits all the time, is it bad?

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Anonymous

guy’s are completely, and utterly, fucking stupid. It’s just a faze. Most likely they are just fascinated or something.

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hippiesstolemyvans

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im sixteen. i have been struggling with depression, anorexia and bulimia for the past three years of my life. my problems arent the stereotypical, i want to be skinny, issue. for some reason i have this disgust with food, its impossible to deal with. my depression means i constantly cut myself. my arms are covered in scars which people consistantly ask me about, thinking they can help me. im about to be admitted to hospital and im terrified. how do i help myself when i dont want to.

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Anonymous

You don’t want to or you can’t? Let them admit you to hospital, stay open to any counselling or whatever is offered. Try everything once. Therapy can help with irrational aversions like you have to food or whatever. I’m sorry, I hope everything goes okay for you. But honestly, there’s no shame in going to hospital - they only exist to help people.

i no this is pretty stupid but i really liked this guy right, we talked for ages and we met up. We watched movies, laughed, cuddled, hold hands, kiss and hooked up. We made plans to meet up 3 times and he fucked me over all those times and now he doesn't talk to me! I need help because i really like him and i don't wanna lose him. PLEASEEE HELPP?? xx

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Anonymous

Sorry peach sounds like you have already lost him. And y’know it is one of my pet peeves when people go on about how they love this guy but he “never talks to you” or whatever, JUST START A CONVERSATION YOURSELF! Better yet, tell him he’s an asshole and ditching you once oculd have been a mistake but three times is not on and you hope he dies cold and lonely. Just putting it out there. -R

my best friend that i have know since i was born just ditched me by saying that we have been really good friends for a long time but she 'doesnt believe that we are close enough any more' to be best friends. i am so angry and disappointed and im just about to break something!!!!!!!!!!! why would she do that to me? what can i do?

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Anonymous

You’re talking about being “best friends” like its a title, it’s not, it’s a relationship.. if you want to be really close to her then make an effort to be there for her, talk to her about your life, ask her about hers, invite her out places, confide in her.. etc etc. But if she really has made up her mind, you can’t do anything to change her mind. That’s what sucks about other people. - R

hi, i don't know what to do. everytime i look in the mirror, i am disgusted by myself. i see a ugly, fat worthless girl. i cut myself when i really am in a shit mood, and i have an slight way of anorexia. i always compare myself to other girls. telling me none of this is true, is something i don't believe anymore. i just don't.. sorry for bothering and you don't need to answer. i just needed to get it off my chest.

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Anonymous

well you’ll never be happy if you compare yourself to other people.

so in about october 2011 i met this boy &we went on camp with our scouts group & we were put in the same team for 3 days. he'd always talk to me and be really nice and stuff. my friend asked him what he thinks of me-he said he likes me but doesnt fancy and that im cute. i really want to go out with him, but i know he doesnt feel the same i do, im literaly dying every time i think of him with full on butterflies, and i know inside its not a silly crush, please help, what can I do bout this? xoxo

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Anonymous

well if he doesn’t like you, there’s really nothing you can do. I hate to be blunt but it’s the truth.

sory for bothering u bout dis stupid relationship question. i originally like this guy (A) for like 2 months and we kinda like flirtingish and close friends, he doesnt really like promosing because he learned his lesson from his ex, so we dont really talk about relationship n actually going out , but we kiss , hold hands n hugs. n i met his close friend (B) from game , we talked on fone n B told me that A is just holding me up n also fishing girls, n they both courted n i <3 them both. HELP?

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justinnnaaaa

They sound like players. I don’t trust boys